CHOOSE TO MAKE MEMORIES

I do not think of myself as an extravagant person. For the most part, basic items are satisfactory. I am pleased with a home that is comfortable, a car that is reliable, food that is healthy, and clothes that are functional. So when it comes to material things, my needs and desires are simple.

 I confess that there IS one category within which I easily can justify a wide degree of extravagance: MAKING MEMORIES. I will part readily and abundantly with time and money for the exchange of making a quality memory. Actually, that is only part true. Great extravagance really comes at the opportunity to make a shared memory. Ordinary memories become extraordinary when others taste the experience with us. In the following weeks, months, and years, conversations will include the opening phrase: Remember the time when we…. Thus, the bonds of relationship grow stronger when people hold quality memories in common. Plus, remembrances increase in value as time passes. While material things we acquire usually depreciate over time, we cherish our good memories more and more.

And it is worthy to note that these are “good” memories. Sure, life has some “difficult” memories too. But we do not intentionally choose nor pursue these. They just happen. Good memories, on the other hand, are usually the result of deliberate intentions and actions. Here are some samples of worthwhile memories to share with family and friends:

§         Worship – church services, retreats, youth camp, etc.

§         Meaningful vacations

§         Physical activities – hikes, fishing, recreation, etc.

§         Concerts, sporting events, dramatic productions

§         Shared projects around the house or neighborhood

§         Ministries – mission trips, VBS, building projects

     Notice that there are many ways to make memories that do not require a lot of money. But all will take some amount of time. Yet even if extravagance is required, it is a worthwhile investment toward a higher quality of life for you and the folks with whom the experience is shared.

I look forward to seeing you Sunday. I look forward to making a memory of worshipping together.  Jay